fall back personality

Dear  Reader's
 So  you  must  wonder  what does a fall back personality mean?  until the last  month I  did  not understand this.  what it is, is  a  place you  go  back to  to feel safe to  shut other's  out.  over  the  past  year i have been living this fall  back lifestyle. oh  believe  me when i say I didn't  even know i was in this place.  
    my  friend  gave me this  killer analogy as well its  like you are on a merry go round. when you  start off  it is going just the  right passe but  as others  want to  join you  it  incidentally starts  to  speed up until you  begin to spin out  of  control. now  where  are you left  you are a mess and  nothing has changed accept that  you  are  trying to  get  back to  this  place where you  are comfortable.  I like to call this place the "comfort  zone" in this comfort  zone you  only  do  what  makes you  comfortable  then  along  comes "change" and you have 1 of  2 choices  you  A) welcome in change or B) you reject the idea that  change is not your enemy. change  could  actually be a good thing. change happens  whether we like it or  not. when  " comfort zone"  goes up against "change" it  becomes iron  sharpens iron  you  can't  get  out of  this  place you are  in  until you let change  happen.  now "change" is not fun  always. that's a  fact.  
  So where  does  this  things  called "fall back  personality"or  F.B.P come  from? now  I could be wrong cause i am not a Doctor. but here is my  take on  the F.B.P  when you are  fighting  change you  fall back into  this "comfort  zone" in fact you  go back into old  ways and habits.  now at  first  you  may not  even  be aware of this. you slowly  begin to  change.  and it's  not the  good  change either.  once you  allow the enemy  foothold upon your  life it  is hard to trust  that God  has already  won our battles for us.It  becomes hard  to believe  that there where there is a will there is also a way.
   I  just want to take a minute to pray over you  my  readers.  Dear God i pray that you  will  bring us  closer  to you. that you would let your  will be done in our  lives today.  Jesus  that you  would  reveal truth  to us  where we are at  whether we  struggle  with the  F.B.P.  or not.  Jesus  that we may  trust in you alone today no matter  what we face.  may you  bless us in every  area  of  our lives and  bring peace.  thank you for  what you are doing in our  lives.  we love you. in Jesus  name amen.



elz